व्यक्तित्व एवं ज़रुरतें

ज़रुरत एक ऐसा शब्द है जो हर किसी के जीवन में होता है।

किसी के लिए जरुरत कुछ भी नहीं और किसी के लिए सब कुछ है ये।

कभी कभी सोचता हूँ कहा से आती है इतनी ज़रुरत और कहां तक मैं इनको पूरा करू। 

एक भूके को ज़रुरत है भोजन की,

एक प्यासे को ज़रुरत है पानी की,

एक बच्चे को ज़रुरत है खिलोने की,

एक अनाथ को ज़रुरत है सहारे की,

ऐसी कई परिस्थितियाँ है जहाँ हर किसी को किसी न किसी वस्तु या सहयोग की ज़रुरत है।

हर किसी की ज़रुरतें भिन्न है।

परन्तु आज के युग में एक ज़रुरत सभी की समान है और वो है संस्कार की जरुरत। जिस गति से हम आज अपने समाज में आगे बढ़ते जा रहे हैं उसी गति से अपने संस्कार पीछे छोड़ते जा रहे हैं। परन्तु न जाने क्यों आज हमारे पास इतना समय ही नहीं है की हम अपनी ये महत्पूर्ण ज़रुरत को पूर्ण कर सके। क्या हमारी कामयाबी हमारे संस्कारो से ज्यादा महत्पूर्ण हो गई है ? क्या हमारा जन्म केवल अपने कार्य सिद्द करने के लिये हुआ है? 

कुछ कवर्त्तव्य हमारे समाज और संस्कृति के प्रति भी है।

आज भी हमारा समाज उस दौर से गुजर रहा है जहाँ एक ओर संस्कार और परोपकार की कहानी सुनाई जाती है। वहीँ  दूसरी ओर एक पुत्र अपने माता - पिता को बृद्ध आश्रम में भेज देता है और एक मासूम बच्चा अपने भोजन के लिये चौराहे पर खिलोने बेचता है। हम सम्पूर्ण समाज को नहीं बदल सकते परन्तु स्वम को बदल सकते है।

तो क्यों न एक शुरुआत करें स्वयम  से बदलने की 

हम अपनी ज़रुरत तो पूरी कर ही लेते है। क्यों न ज़रुरत उनकी पूरी करे जिनको वास्तविक जरुरत है।

ज़रुरत है एक परिवर्तन  लाने की 

ज़रुरत है सोच में परिवर्तन लाने की 

ज़रुरत है भेदभाव समाप्त  करने  की 

चलो आज हम अपने अंदर एक विस्वास जगाते  है,

जिन्हे है जरुरत खुशियों की उनके जीवन में खुशियों के दीप जलाते है। कुछ उनके दुःख कुछ अपनी खुशी चलो मिलकर एक नई खुशी बनाते है। चलो आज हम अपने अंदर एक विश्वास जगाते  है। सबके अंदर एक नई ख़ुशी फेहलाते है !!

     

देवेंद्र पांडेय 

#Women's day...

Celebrations are a part of our lives. And when they are tagged with some special dates they certainly become more special as they prove to be the best reminders. Birthday celebration, farewell spree, anniversary cake cutting ceremony lasts for that particular day. While the celebration of Women's day isn't just restricted to a day as it an enduring process .Because being a women isn't just a one day credit. Everyday she is worth giving credits whether she is a home worker or an employee or both. Even history proves it true. Swadeshi movement, Civil disobedience movement wouldn't have been a success without women active participation. Goddess Lakshmi showers her benisons so that we can become financially strong, goddess Saraswati is symbolized as goddess of knowledge and arts, goddess Durga provides us strength and is pure representation of women's power as she is referred as mother of universe and is believed to be  power behind the work of creation, preservation and destruction of the world. In  the Bhagwad Gita when Lord Krishna was asked where do you dwell? He answered it with extreme simplicity by saying that I reside in every women who has such characteristics. This is how much importance a woman hold in this universe. Although from a long time women are  continuously suppressed just because they are considered just a source  of  rearing child and serving  food to  their family. Yes, it is candid that women till today women  have  not got what they actually deserve. But the days are gone when  criticism was only the way of protesting. We women deserve it and we prove it not by delivering few flattering framed words   but we prove it by doing deeds. We prove it by our achievements. Be it any field- political, social, economical, sports , education , aeronautics etc.

12% of women are a part of Indian parliament in form of cabinet minister, union minister and various dignitaries. In joint committee of women empowerment out of 6o members 28 members are women which form around 50 percent. For the first time a women has been elected as minister of minority affairs. Even in terms of academics girls are far ahead than boys. There have been many contradictory reactions when government announced to give 33% of seats to women. But this decision isn't  out of pity. It's because our nation can only develop if women and man equivocally participate. No doubt if a women can take care of home then she can  be a good service women too. This is the era of startups. And nobody in this world is as creative and innovative as women. Her thoughts, her struggle, her mindset , her willingness, her confidence , her stability, her fondness, her dedication, her patience makes her stronger. The best thing even her tears are her forte. She do not want to dominate she just want her nation to progress and make a better place to live in not for her but for her family, her children and for the citizens of it's nation.

Women empowerment is one of the most discussed topics of this year. And why not?  Definitely it should  be. As it is most relevant. There are various active women such as  Pratibha patil , Sushma swaraj,  Sania mirza, Saina nehwal, Mary kom, Kalpna chawla , Arundhati bhattacharya,  Priyanka chopra and many more. But still a section of women still seems to be covert. May be there might be a number of reasons beyond this furtiveness such as family pressure, self resistance , mindset of society  etc. But it's not the time to step backward instead it's the correct time to grab opportunity and show the world your worth. In politics it is rightly said that ''If you want something said ask a man and if you want something done ask a women". On this special eve of International women's day I congratulate every women for being a daughter ,wife, sister,   mother, friend  and above all a beautiful ,sensible and logical women and every man for having such a auspicious gem in their lives as well as in this nation. Respect women. Respect yourselves.

Jai Hind.

Jai Bharat.

Author 

- Poorva Banthiya

Female Members taking care of promotions campaign.

Doctors team behind success of health campaigns.

Members keeping health records of people taking benefit of free health campaign..

Dietitian taking care of health counselling.

"आस २" Free Health Camp

^^^^^^^^^^^^//"आस"\\^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Health Campaign under supervision of registered Doctor to help all resident at Malendi village.

+Dr. Arvind Jagnari (M.B.B.S)

& his team

+Ms. Raksha Goyal (Dietitian)

& her team

   Details :-

* General health check

* Malnutrition screening

* Diet counselling

* Biochemical test:

   #Blood group

   #RBS

   #Urine test

Brief Report by Purva Banthiya :-

No matter how jovial we are, no matter how disappointed we go. Ultimately we have to move on and smile. Smile by doing what we like not by emulating others. With this exact set up strategy in our minds we the members of AnantAman social welfare soceity  headed towards our new destination. A venue which was hard to find as almost everyone of us discovered new unfolded pathways which in future might carry broaden horizons although it wasn't actually our present destination. Finally we assembled around 7:45 am with shivering hands and blizzardly faces we reached naya school, Malendi village near Mhow. The Panchayat people - Sarpanch , Aganwadi workers , ASHA workers greeted us and played a very crucial role in organising Health camp. Actually it was a free Health check up so as to spread awareness and uplift health status. It was under the supervision of Miss Raksha Goyal and Dr Arvind Jagnari .

The camp encompassed the following - body health check up, blood sugar test and urine test. People from the village  supported well and discussed their issues. Overall 150 registrations occured without any mess because of the support of dedicated members of our team- Varnini, Umang, Hitesh , Ankit, Palav, Purva and no doubt president of our ngo Hemant Gupta is always our forte. Monitoring,  surveillance and feedback are the major tools to be noted by any governing body. SDM(Mhow) Mr. Sandeep Rajapaa sir approached the camp and took an overview of all the task done . It's always a matter of pride being honoured by such  an ardent persona and so SDM sir merrily provided acknowledgement to one of the most dedicated member of our group Mr Raksha goyal. Although India lost the series this time but yet won the last match. As it is truly acceptable that if end is well all is well. So around 2 pm we packed up . After that we were offered lunch by the people of Malendi itself. It's always a matter of delight having traditional food and that too when served with so much of fondness with extreme care. Now we moved on with a promise of coming soon in the scorching heat but with soothing minds by enlightening 'आस' in the mass.

No choice but begging

At 56shops, 28th August 2015

A girl: Please give me some money. I'll buy something to eat.

Me: No I'll not give you money but if you are really hungry I'll buy you something to eat.

Girl: No but I need money.

Me: You said you were hungry.

Girl: Give me money I have to buy something for grandmother as well.

Me: What about your parents?

Please

Girl: I don't know. I live with grandmother.

Me: What is your name?

Girl: I don't know.

Me: Where do you live?

Girl: Nanda Nagar..

Me: That's too far from here. Why do you come here?

Girl: I get good money at 56shops.

Me: Your Grandmother asks you to come here?

Girl: No. I come by my own.

Me: Do you study?

Girl: I want to but I don't have time.

That was a moment which stuck me in deep thoughts..

She appeared to be around 7-8years of age, very weak in physical appearance yet full of energy even after a hot day. I desperately wanted to help her but I didn't wanted to give money. I was helpless. 

We know she could go to a government school where she will be provided with one time meal but what about her grandmother who was unable to work. All responsibility of her family was on her shoulders. Though she was begging on streets, but she did get something to eat at end of the day after all she had no choice because she couldn't be employed anywhere due to regulations prohibiting child labour. Now she has only one choice — begging. 

Lets assume a different scenario..

What if government prohibited child labour subject to certain terms and conditions, like they always do in other acts and laws like IT. If condition were like children could be employed at day time only if they attended school in morning or night, regularly or on alternate days. There attendace would be monitored to get them employment. I know many would be offending my opinion but i do belive that working at a good place and earning someting is far better than begging. Providing them work and earning opportunities only if they are regular to school will certainly help. Many people would be holding an argument that we can't ask children to work, but do these people really feel that children aren't working already. When they will have a fix amount coming in at the end of a day they would be less worried about what they will eat. Thus they will have some interest towards school. There are many success stories of people who started working at very young age and became pioneers in there field. So why not children on streets get a chance to earn something with respect. 

Some facts and figures..

I personally observed at 56 shops that number of children begging for money are constantly increasing. Towards end of august I noticed two girls who regularly wandered there. By end of September there were 4-5 children who were frequently observed there.. Somehow there numbers are increasing on streets this is the matter of concern.

By Umang Daga

महात्मा !!

सत्य से रूबरू कराया था।

अहिंसा का मार्ग दिखाया था।

निष्ठा से कर्म करना सिखाया था।

देश को आजा़द कराया, धोती पहनें — लाठी उठाए ।

देश के पिता बनें, सरे संसार मे महात्मा कहलाए ।

तिरंगा भारत की भूमी पर शान से लहराया था,

बापु के आदर्शों पर मज़बूत देश बनाया था,

परंतू बापू के सपने हम पूरे न कर सके,

ज़िदंगी की दौड में सभी आदर्शों से भटके,

माता-पिता लाचार और बच्चे भूखे है,

शिक्षा तो स्वप्न है पहले सभी मौसम से बचते है,

भूले है सभी शिष्टाचार और परोपकार,

धन, ईर्शा और लालच की है जै जै कार,

बापू भी दुखी होंगे हमे आपस मे लडते देख,

दौलत, जाती, धर्म, कर्म आदी पर बटता देख ।

शायद.....

इस युग मे महात्मा हमारी अंतर आत्मा को बनना होगा ।

सभी को गांधी जयंती की शुभकामनाएं ।

Umang Daga

OP-ED

"प्रजातंत्र"

यह कौन सा तंत्र है

षड्यंत्र ही षड्यंत्र है

वैश्विककरण का दौर है

हर आदमी यहाँ चोर है

दिल नहीं यह दौरा है

काहे का ढोंग धतूरा है

धर्म का मुँह काला है

अधर्मी का बोलबाला है

भ्रष्ट ही यहाँ शिष्ट है

स्वार्थ में सब लिप्त है

खादी के भाषण झूठे है

अपने बन सबको लूटें है

हर मानव बेरोजगार है

रोजगार की दरकार है

चारों ओर सूखा हतै

किसान यहाँ पर भूखा है

देखिये जनहित सरकार है

सर्वत्र भ्रष्ट और भ्रष्टाचार है

कहने को प्रजातंत्र है

जहाँ षड्यंत्र ही षड्यंत्र है..||

By: Mrs. Vandana Chaudhary

“परमार्थ"

हम सदैव इस भ्रम मे रहते है कि हमने किसी की सहायता करके बहुत पुनित व पावन कर्म किया है और इससे हमारे पापों का बोझ किंचित  मात्र कम हो जाएगा |लेकिन वास्तविक्ता यह है कि जब तक हम अपने स्वार्थ का परित्याग नही करेंगे तब तक  हमारे द्वारा किया गया परमार्थ सिद्ध नही होगा|

हमारा स्वार्थ हमपर हावी होकर हमसे कई तरह के कृत्य कराता है ,कुछ सत्कर्म की श्रेणी में आते हैं, कुछ दुष्कर्म की !

हमारी नज़र में हमारे द्वारा किया गया कार्य उचित ही होता है , किंतु नज़रिया बदल कर देखिए नजारें स्वयं ही बदल जाएँगे|

 अपने लिये तो सभी जीते है औरों के लिये जीकर देखो वह आनंद  प्राप्त होगा कि जिसका

 स्वाद आपकी जिह्वा से कभी न जाएगा| परमार्थ का  रसास्वादन करने के पश्चात  स्वार्थ आपको कड़वी निम्बोली के समान प्रतीत होगा |

    परमार्थ वह दवा है जो प्रत्येक रोग का उपचार करने मे सक्षम है| कहा भी गया है – “परहित सरिस धर्म नहीं भाई" ,अर्थात् दूसरों की भलाई से बड़ा कोई धर्म नही ! हम सक्षम है, समर्थ है, असीम कोष है हमारे पास तो यदि हम उसका छोटा सा हिस्सा नि:शक्त जनों के हित मे दें तो हमारा कोष कभी खत्म नही होगा अपितु दिनों दिन बढ़ता ही जाएगा|

    साँई इतना दीजिये जामे कुटुंब समाए |

     मैं भी भूखा न रहूँ  साधु न भूखा जाए ||

  अर्थात्  आगम उतना ही होना चाहिये जितने मे आवश्यक्ताओं की पूर्ति हो जाए,

और नि:शक्त जनों के हित में योगदान भी दिया जा सके |

नफरतें  भर  गई  आहों में,

लाठियाँ  चलती है  राहों में,

मैं  मैं  न  रहा  तू  तू  न  रहा |

यह  राज्य  नहीं  अब  तेरा  है,

यह  सारा  इलाका  मेरा  है |

तू  मुस्लिम है  या  हिन्दु  है,

माथे  पर  तेरे  बिन्दु  है |

चलते  है  हम  अंगारों  पर,

राहों  में बनी  कतारों  पर |

भेड़  नहीं  हमें  बनना  है,

काँटों  पर  इसको  चलना  है |

महफूज़  नहीं  यहाँ  नारी  है,

अब  चारों  ओर  कटारी  है |

मानव में दानव  शामिल है,

गैरों  की गए  पनाहों में,

नफरतें भर गई आहों में ,

लाठियाँ  चलती है राहों में,

मैं मैं न रहा तू तू न रहा..||

By: Mrs. Vandana Chaudhary

ARE WE EDUCATED?
"A project we initiate, you participate, together we bring the change"

We are glad to announce that we are starting our first project named - "R V Educated...??" towards welfare of society. Based on the concept that learning has no end and we must share knowledge that we possess with others. It's an open invitation to all those interested to bring a Change in society by imparting their knowledge..

Poster Credit : Miti Malviya

It is rightly said that Health is wealth and to keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear.. Just first initiative towards our Project, Exercise activity with Orphanage kids by our fitness trainer.

-Mr.Aman Navin

Child - Societies boon to be rescued.

PEAKING INNOCENCE

A presence of the small soul turns the four walls into a perfect home. Child, a boon from Mother Nature, in every way represents the purest form of innocence. Unfortunately not every little one receives a perfect place to grow the way he or she deserves.

As the word child states the beginning of life, it means in order to protect life we need strong methods to implement children empowerment, these circumstances gave birth to child welfare. It has become a topmost priority of any nation to protect its newly born generation, because they will ultimately take lead in future. Children are most vulnerable and naive part of society, thus their mentoring and nurturing has been a delicate issue. Different children across the globe face different situations. They need to be protected from trading, exploitation, harmful traditional practices, abuses etc. They need to see the world through better perception, their talent needs appreciation, their problems need to be herd and heeded accordingly, as what society feeds into the infant mind will stay with it till the last breath.

Despite of the desperate change in the grooming of the little ones of the society, i see children begging on streets for food, begging for money, begging for survival. Nobody has the liberty to choose the place he wishes to dwell upon. Child welfare has become a major concern growing globally day by day as the importance of life itself has become a fragile issue. Day by day so many people lose their life due to various mass destructions. There was a time when man was busy finding out how long he would live; now he’s busy in keeping track how many people die even before giving a thought to that fact. Homeless or poor children are chained to the gallows of hopelessness, and even few of those chains’ keys have lost in time of their ancestors. Children like these are tied to the fate of their parents, few of them mange to brake the walls, but not everyone’s a slum dog millionaire. The rest which are born without a name in society, they are also coiled in the society’s vicious cycle of poor education and limited health benefits. Child labour, which is strictly prohibited in our today’s society, is still preached in some invisible corners of firework and glass factories. With the new stats coming up, there’s a major population of children being ruthlessly pushed towards prostitution, pornography etc. there are so many shades of grey to be unleashed, but only a few in condition of mending at the moment.

In terms of steps taken by the government, India lags way behind other nations. Countries like Canada, United states have free education provided for the population in need. UNICEF has targeted issues like HIV, human trafficking in various countries across the globe. The growth and awareness level has been substantially significant. Global organisations work hand in hand with countries in order to provide best facilities to the majorly affected areas. Apart from the global organisations, there are many indigenous organisations, which have shown keen interest in promoting humanitarianism. In our country initiatives have been taken to foster child welfare among slums, orphanages etc. like the youth has been very active towards participating in the empowerment of education in every narrow street possible. The previous years have shown the partial success of ‘each one teach one’, but basically the concept can slowly erode the literacy problem in our country. Plus the successful eradication of polio has boosted up the spirits of the people working for such social causes. There’s an urgent need of things to work more efficiently in this sector, because the growing census is also another major issue to tackle in this mammoth country. Despite of the money flow and funds availability, the need of the hour is a very strong administration to manage it in a legitimate manner. Different n.g.o’s have taken bold initiatives to heal the most delicate issues of our abashed society. The change making process is itself an endless loop, but even for that loop to end; a firm beginning is unavoidable. Children of our country need a strong hand to hold on ahead for their future, and it’s our time to get the ropes and wheel in our hand to set sail for a better future awaiting us.

Author- Soumya Sharma

Tri-colors in midst of NexGeneration

15th august, Friday, Members of ‘AnantAman Social Welfare Society’ celebrated this fervour festival along with frisky children of an orphanage ‘Premraj SS’. The honourable chief guests were Mr. Pritam Singh Thakur a musician, poet and composer, Mr. Radheshyam Negi a motivational speaker and Mr. Dwarikadish Dangi, lecturer “Muh kholo-Akshar bolo” programme. The morning events included Drawing competitions and other preparations of poem reciting and singing competition. After a light drizzle, the flag hoisting ceremony took place. The prime guests enthralled the little ones with their wonderful words, also Mr. Dwarikadish Dangi demonstrated their eye catching technique of teaching alphabets of both hindi and English. The ceremony was filled with the melodious chains of self composed songs by Mr. Pritam Singh. The later events were the conspicuous poem reciting and singing performances of the children. Mr. Hemant gupta, Mr. Umang Daga, Ms. Neelu Devi and the other members of the two organisations celebrated this enthusiastic festival with joy and zeast making the event a great success.


Brief event Report by Soumya Sharma

First He - Latter She

FIRST HE, LATTER SHE 

Well I say; Grow-up people and cut the crap. I wish everyone could. People often discuss upon the sexual harassment & physical assaults; and every time end up agreeing on a solution that ‘its women who should wave her Right & adapt’.

It’s been a while now & the debate still continues, so it will in foreseeable future. The debate is a typical Boy-Gal differentiation that our society always put to hinder all efforts of establishing ‘Equality’. It arises of a situation where everyone easily concludes that it is woman who should, always, resist, adapt & move on.

 We hardly stand with them & help them raise their voice against the wrong doers. Rapes & several other kinds of assaults have been increasing, actually they have been reported increasingly, as much as we hear of it we seem to settle with the fact that men aren't going to change therefore we should help our Mother, Wife, Sisters & Daughters learn some basic defence moves or perhaps, the complex ones too like Martial-Arts. It is good, very good though, as it will be beneficial to them somehow. Precisely women themselves have accepted this scenario as they carry pepper spray, mobile app, SOS tools etc; to help them out of danger. Yet again it is absolutely prudent to think about own safety. Ethically this should be second priority as it is a choice between Right & Right. Adopting preventive measures against a disease is good but when we can be immune as well as eliminate the roots of disease why not take steps towards this.

Logically, prevention can’t be ultimate solution. At times it may be helpful but often defensive moves would provoke the un-stable men to be more hostile; further leading women to be more vulnerable. Such threat would always prevail until men are well taught & become wise enough to respect opposite gender. When we come across something wrong which might someday cause harm to our loved ones what we do towards it, do we learn some fancy stuff so that we can prevent ourselves & let the cause exist or we chase it down and eliminate it. Similarly, why do we teach, rather dictate, females over what to do & what not to instead of teaching men how they should behave; why don’t we dictate them to be matured enough & keep a check over their testicles when they see women in short dresses around. When Mother teaches her son Manners why don’t she teach him to respect woman. When Father shows his son right path to success why don’t he guide his son about the relations of male & female. Why don’t Sisters teach their brothers grace, friendship & ability to respect the fact of equality between different man and woman. This rarely happens, we are into a World were men live & grow up with fake Masculine dominance and arrogance, it further takes us to gender discrimination due to which every time sword is dropped upon woman’s head. Below is the link which elaborates the fault in upbringing of a male child.

Above video would have justified my point? Basically boys don’t learn true values rather they are preached that, women are inferior to them, home-keeping servants or mere sex objects. This exacerbates the modern scenario. In a world like this teaching women martial arts is futile. If we wish to establish equality, it has to be worked from grass-root level and that starts our home, by teaching our father, brother, son & friends.

Pathetic it is, that we are into an age where we have to teach people to respect women.


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